Friday, February 21, 2025
My I-Didn't-Know-It-Then-But-I-Know-It-Now Best Day Ever
Posted by
Esther Hershenhorn
I count my Blessings like a lawyer, on the quarter-hour basis.
That's how grateful I am.
So when tasked to choose My Best Day Ever from a bounty of Best Days
both personal and professional, I was downright flummoxed.
Confounding the matter was that my mind was already otherwise
engaged, remembering, reflecting, fully-focused on My Best Boy and his
upcoming March 4th Big Five-O Birthday.
One remembrance continued to pop up, and each time it did, I felt my
heart smile:
my son at two, settled in my lap, uncharacteristically still,
uncharacteristically quiet, as we found ourselves lost in a Mr. Rogers
episode.
Fog had descended upon the world of Make-Believe - an enormous
close-to-the-ground cloud, Mr. Rogers explained, so that Bob Dog
couldn't find his stone.
Jon's dark brown eyes widened at the wonder of it all. When Lady
Elaine used her boomerang to lift the fog, his mouth formed a perfect
"O."
Whatever this thing was, with the snap of a finger it made
everything and everyone DISappear, but then, just like that, begin to
REappear! It was Pure Magic and my Best Boy wanted some.
By the time Mr. Rogers finished singing "Wishes Don't Make Things
Come True," I heard myself whispering, "Yes! Yes!"
Bob Dog had found his stone but even better, I had found my
long-ago Dream to someday, one day, write a children's book!
"Jon," I said, "Mommy's writing you a picture book, all about a little
boy who wants to catch a piece of the fog. You'll have it by your
very next Birthday."
I now know: that day's promise of a book not only set me on a
professional path I liken to my very own Yellow Brick Road.
It forced me to mine my pluck and grit, to keep marching forth in
step with my Best Boy, sometimes even over, under and through,
to recover my buried voice so I could realize my Dream.
It picked me up every time I fell; it chased away all doubts and
fears.
True, the road was longer than first imagined; I greatly under-
estimated my arrival time.
(FYI: I honored my promise nineteen years later, though with a
different story. The Fogcatcher, alas, still awaits publication.)
But to my surprise, despite the Despites, not only did honoring
that promise gift me with countless unimagined unexpected
Kodak Moments - Best Days, if you will. It continues to do so.
Just like my sunny Sonny Boy, it's the gift that keeps on
giving.
Each time I added an appositive noun to my name - author,
award-winner, teacher, writing coach, colleague, friend and
amazingly, blogger, each time I advocated for children's
book creators, I could feel my heart smile.
"Who would have thunk it?" I'd hear myself ask.
Hopefully, each Thanku I posted over the years adequately
expressed my gratitude - for my "storied treasures," my
"new berries," my mentors, our Children's Book World, my
fellow bloggers and you, our Readers.
This one, however, long over-due, I'm tucking inside my
Best Boy's Birthday card.
My Sunny Son Jon
A Maker of Dreams Come True
Marching forth always!
Here's to discovering your Best Days Ever!
Esther Hershenhorn
p.s.
Thanks to Laura Purdie Salas for hosting today's Poetry Friday.
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6 comments:
LOVE your post, Esther. But I can't believe your Sonny boy is having such a milestone birthday! What a beautiful Thanku!
Oh, Esther, what a lovely trip down memory lane right up to today. I'm with you on the gratitude--happy 5-0 to your son!
Esther, your trademark enthusiasm shines in *every* sentence. What struck me was this fragment: "despite the Despites" ~ so well put.
Thank you for sharing such a rich and loving memory that blew you here to us. How lucky we are!
Thanks for your Kind Words, Carmela and April, and those Birthday Wishes, too, Laura. Truly, it's Lucky ME given the fact I currently blog with 2 of you and blogged with Laura in the past. I meet The Best People doing what I do - which is a whole other TeachingAuthor post theme!
As someone who benefitted from your advocate of children's writers (way back when I lived in Illinois in the 90's and was starting on this road) and has long admired you, wanted to say how much I love these memories, this post.
I loved reading about your 'best boy' & 'best day', Esther, the love and celebration of so many wonderful things makes the day very special!
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