Happy Poetry Friday! I share a poem at the end of this post along with a link to this week's Poetry Friday roundup.
As April mentioned when she kicked off this series of posts, our first topic of the year was inspired by the 2025 Tournament of Roses Parade's theme, "My Best Day Ever!" Of course, back when we planned the topic, we had no idea that it would be a challenging one given all that's going on in the world. But perhaps Providence was at work, because I can't imagine a better time to focus on being thankful for good things, which is crucial to the Best Day theme.
Like Zeena, I can think of many personal Best Days, such as my wedding day, the birth of my son, his wedding day, etc. I've also been blessed with many writing-related Best Days. Highlights of those days include graduating from Vermont College, being offered a contract for my first novel, and having a packed house for my first-ever book signing at my local independent bookseller. But my most recent writing-related Best Day was completely unexpected and happened just last Friday, January 31. It's related to my latest publication, a true story in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Tales of Christmas: 101 Stories of Holiday Joy, Love and Gratitude edited by Amy Newmark. The book was released in October 2024, but it continues to bless me in surprising ways. Before I describe last Friday's Best Day event, I need to provide some backstory.
Finding out last summer that my story, "A Life-Changing New Year's Tradition," would be included in Tales of Christmas was itself a writing "Best Day." I've submitted pieces to Chicken Soup multiple times but have been accepted only once before--a poem in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Teens Talk High School, 101 Stories of Life, Love, and Learning for Older Teens edited by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Amy Newmark, & Madeline Clapps back in 2008. I'm not sure if the paperback is still in print, but the book is still available as an ebook.
Despite it's title, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Tales of Christmas features stories about events beginning with Thanksgiving and running through Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, and New Year’s Day. My story is about our family's tradition of keeping a Good Things Jar and how the jar helped me through an especially difficult time.When my copies of the book arrived, I was honored to discover that my piece is the last one in the collection. But then I thought, maybe the honor wasn't that great, since the book contains only two New Year's stories. 😄
If you read my latest Creativity Newsletter, you already know that the publication of Tales of Christmas led to an interview in our local newspaper. (If you don't get my quarterly newsletter and would like to subscribe, you can do so here.) I was quite surprised by the newspaper's interest--I've sent them press releases in the past without ever receiving a response. But I was even more surprised on Sunday, December 15, when I opened my copy of the paper to find the photo I'd provided on the front page!
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Photo taken by John Martino |
I learned in the article that the reporter had also interviewed Amy Newmark, the book's editor. He asked Amy about the Chicken Soup selection process and how she chose my piece. Here's an excerpt from his article:
“I love to put some New Year’s stories in our Christmas book,” Newmark said. “I liked Carmela’s story, which is a twist on the more conventional approach to gratitude, which is to have a journal. The gratitude jar. What’s great about it is it makes you approach every single day with a different perspective. You start looking for the good things instead of the bad things.... I can see hundreds of people doing that because they read it in her story,” Newmark said.
Martino’s story is the last one in the book.
“I like to end the book with a nice, strong story. You finished Christmas, here’s a great idea to put you on a positive footing for the new year,” Newmark said.
Wow! Reading Amy's comments gave me another Best Day! I loved learning about how she chose my story and why she ended the book with it. But the blessings related to the publication of "A Life-Changing New Year's Tradition" didn't stop there. Several friends I hadn't connected with in some time contacted me after seeing the article. My friend Gayl, who had moved to Minnesota, must have read the article online, because she emailed to congratulate me. She also said that her library had ordered Tales of Christmas, and she couldn't wait to read my story.
And that, at last, brings me to what happened last Friday. Out of the blue, I received a text from Gayl saying that her library finally got Tales of Christmas. She wrote, "I loved your story and its message," and said that she and her husband had decided to start their own Good Things Jar. Her text made my day! She had verified Any Newmark's comment that my story would inspire readers to create their own Good Things Jars. I was thrilled to know that my story had touched someone so much that they'd been moved to action.
Gayl ended her text with "Thanks for the lift!" But her message had lifted me, too, giving me another "Best Day." (And something great to share in my post for this series!) Of course, I included a note about her message in my own Good Things Jar. 😄
Now, for the poem I promised. Some of you may recall that, back in December 2021, I participated in the Kidlit Winter Poem Swap. I had the pleasure of swapping poems, and a small gift, with Linda Mitchell. My gift to Linda included a glass jar I'd decorated and labeled for her to use as a Good Things Jar and two poems. I've copied one of those poems below. I believe it fits well with our Best Day theme of gratitude. What do you think?
Good Things
A morning walk
beneath blue skies.
A cardinal calling
as it flies.
A smiling stranger
holds a door.
A new museum
to explore.
The patter of
much-needed rain.
A breath of air
that's sweet again.
A lovely dinner
with a friend.
A stunning sunset
at day's end.
The flavor of a
favorite tea.
A comfy chair
and time to read.
Record these joys
on little cards
and save them in
your Good Things jar.
© 2021 Carmela A. Martino. All rights reserved.
Don't forget to check out this week's Poetry Friday roundup hosted by Carol Varsalona at Beyond LiteracyLink.
Happy writing!
Carmela
24 comments:
Carmela, you made my morning. Your positivity is such a boost especially in these days of world unrest. I am scheduled to read for my granddaughters second grade class. I am going to share your poem and gratitude jar project with her teachers. I would love to see what the children would write. The Gratitude/Good Things Jar is a wonderful project. Congratulations on your "My Best Day Ever" idea, your poem "Good Things" and your true story which I would love to read. I am sorry that you had a difficult time getting into the Inlinkz link party. Let me see what I can do to remedy that. I really want others to read your post.
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I did read your good news in your newsletter, Carmela, & hope you continue to have many more 'best days'! In these recent tough times, I hope so many read your post to discover, then start, their own "Good things" jar! Congrats for that terrific article about you, too!
Carmela, what a great post. Congratulations on all the fun and success with your story being published. Your poem is perfect, and what a great inspiration for Linda to start her own Good Things Jar. This is my favorite stanza. It resonates with some of my daily joys:
The flavor of a
favorite tea.
A comfy chair
and time to read.
Hello Wonderful Carmela. So much GOODNESS here. What I need today. The editor interview is such a coup. And so, can being last. I generally read a book of essays from the back forward, figuring that the last has to be a super strong close. It's important that this Christmas collection isn't exclusive, but inclusive for many winter holidays That you for your cosy poem, makes me want to make another cuppa & read. Wishing much Joy to your World. [ I enjoy the newsletter, even tho I don't often respond...]
What a lovely, bright boost — so needed today. Thanks, Carmela!
Carol, I'm thrilled to know you'll be sharing my poem and project with children. I'd love to know how it goes!
Thanks, Linda! I appreciate your encouragement.
Thanks, Denise. I, too, love curling up in a chair with a cup of tea and a book. :-)
Oh, I love this post! Yay! It does my heart good. Thank you for sharing all these great moments with us. Love the poem, too.
Thanks, Jan. I'm glad to know you enjoy my newsletter. Yes, I wish Chicken Soup called the book something besides Tales of Christmas because it covers other holidays too!
You're most welcome, Karen. I'm happy to know it gave you a boost!
Thanks for taking time to comment, Susan. That makes MY heart feel good! :-)
Congratulations on your story being included in CSS. I too have had one published in theiur Hope and Miracles Edition. And it is a thrill! I LOVE the idea of a gratitude jar. I am going to craft one with my grandchildren. I may put on in my entry to invite everyone to add their message. Thanks!
Thank you for an inspiring post. I would love to read the full story. Congratulations on your publication!
Thanks, Cathy! I'm thrilled that you plan to craft a Good Things Jar with your grandchildren. I hope they love it!
Wow, front page. What a lovely bit of publicity. Thanks for your fun poem and post, Marti. Congratulations on teaming up with an agent--I hope it's a wonderful partnership!
Oh my goodness, this is amazing!! Thank you for sharing this - with so much doom scrolling these days, it really helps to hear people's stories of happiness, events and experiences that bring joy. <3 Congratulations on the story, that's really quite amazing, and such a wonderful idea, too - I love the idea of focusing on good things all throughout the year, especially when it's so easy to focus on the negative all the time!
Thanks, Laura!
Yes, Jane. Most of us default to seeking the negative. Our Good Things Jar helps me remember to watch for positives too. Thanks for stopping by!
Carmela! As others have said, your post is an inspiring, hope-filled piece; a respite from the dark clouds of world events.I think it may have been YOU who inspired me to create a Good Things jar many, many years ago...was it? But I gave up putting things in it because I'd expected my husband and son to put THEIR Good Things in there, too. No such luck. Still, I am grateful every day for something...including letting go of my expectations of others!
Take care, and thanks for this post of hope.
Oh April, I hope you'll return to using your Good Things Jar for yourself. My husband rarely adds to ours, but he still enjoys reading all the notes together at the end of the year.
I'm late to the Dance of Thanks and Admiration, Carmelat.
Nevertheless, your Best Day Ever post is golden, like my Mom's chicken soup! Thank you for opening our eyes!
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